True Colors

I have typed, erased and re-typed this blog post. I do not want to stoop down to peoples level by completely putting people on blast on the internet whether it is via a social network or a blog post. It is not worth it. But I feel I need to get some things off of my chest...

When someones true colors arise, what can you do? and why does this person feel the need to make it a point in their life to bring down someones good standing with mutual friends?

I find it absolutely ridiculous that this person has made it a point in life to make it known that the life this person is living is perfect and a damn good person. If you are a genuine person and you have a happy life, you would not have to make it known. People just know it because you radiate it and you live it by example.

What ever happened to having true friends that you can turn to for an ear to listen, a shoulder to lean on and no matter the break in between friendship, at any given moment you can call this friend and just pick up where you left off? What happened to those kind of friends? I still have a few but they are hard to come by nowadays.

A real true friend will not make mutual friends choose a side, by saying negative things that are not true. It is so sad and I feel sorry for this person. I have completely moved on and have not once went to a mutual friend and tried to make them choose. That is not what a friend does.

As I sit here drinking my decaf coffee and reflecting on what has happened between this said friend...I am glad to know this persons true colors. In the end, the only people that matter are the ones that bring positive energy in my life.

xoxo